You sound a lot more calm. In a way its better that you get things dealt with faster but the key is to get a good lawyer that you trust and to have a good support group of friends and family to talk with. Get out and get some exercise as well does wonders. I think after you meet with the L you will feel much better. My sitch has been dragging on for months. I have been foolishly thinking that W would have a change of heart. The entire time she has been walking all over me. It hasn't been until recently that I fight back. Its all going to come to a boil soon and I wish I had dealt with it all when the B first D'd. Best of luck to you Judy. Keep Calm and DB On!
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
