Hi Buttercup. I'm going through a very similar situation...but I didn't even get a month. H filed 2 weeks later. He's been an absolute horror...I finally had to draw strict private space boundaries just to keep my sanity. This board, and the people here, have been fantastic. I had a rotten day today....fight with H, where all my good DB advice went flying out the window...lol
My advice from the land of nightmares? Be calm, be strong. Do something nice for yourself, because you deserve it.