Zeus. thanks. Everyone kept telling me there would come a time I would reach my breaking point. I guess I did. I am sure he is telling OW he kicked me out which is not the case at all it was my choice. I could have sat there kissed a$$ again and started they cycle again but no I chose to leave! You know the first 2 days were hard but he is making it easier and easier every day. The only thing hard for me really is not having the kids all of time, that will take an adjustment but I will get through it. He called sunday to ask when the girls activities were...he could have asked them, called the teacher, asked his mom, or looked at google calendar but no he called. I am sure it is easier for him to just call and I tell him but I also wonder if it was just a reason to call???? Monday night d8 called to tell him she made the competition team for gymnastics and she asked if she could talk to her sisters I said no they were probably in bed. He again asked to talk to me asked what I said no about I told him and then told him it was no big deal they would all be staying together at his moms wednessday. he then proceeded to say that was what I wanted to talk to you about I wanted to make sure she was going the girls are really excited...Again something he could have talked to his mom about or asked D8....Tuesday evening he sends me a text asking if I sent his graduation thank yous (I told him 2 months ago I wrote and sent them) if I paid the house taxes (again could have asked his mom as he knew she paid them and we had to pay her back..no I didnt) and if I transfered money to his account like I said i would (no I hadn't did that today) Again could have checked his account to see. I stopped by to get my mail as I checked to post office box and it was empty and I hadn't checked mail in a week so I knew he had done it. Went in ignored his text as I got it when I was pulling in the drive way went in asked if he got the mail and if i had any he said it was on the table so I sorted it threw away what I didnt want gave the girls hugs and kisses and started to leave. He says wait grab the clothes from the bedroom..I said ok...went back mine in a box girls in a pile I yelled am I just supposed to go through this and get what D8's? He then comes back and starts putting his clothes away? Seemed kind of odd to me as he was sitting at the desk figuring out bills! He said yea i have not had time to go through it with the girls you know I have no idea whos clothes are whos but I will figure it out. I said ok. He said well I will right I will get it. I said yes your doing great. (I felt like he was asking for my approval or a pat on the back for giving it a go???) I grabbed the box and was headed out the door. he yells hey did you want these scentsy's? I said yes I need to finish unpacking what I have and then I will figure out what to do with the rest. I will probably have to get a storage unit. he said I dont have to i can always store stuff here. I then said ill figure it out do you mind if I have D4 on Tuesdays. he asked why I said because its my day off and I always spend it with her and i would like to continue spending some time with her. He said he didnt need a long explanation he just asked why. Ok so he agreed to that but I need to text him to remind him until he gets on a schedule. ok whatever. so by now i have tried to leave 3 times and he continues to have questions. I have already left him a note monday with girls schedules when I grabbed more stuff while he was at work and an explanation on how to get into my google account so he can see calendar I left him a list of bills he still needed to pay with due dates. So now 4th time i try to leave he is again at the computer and I annoyed say Is there anything else you need. Well yes I need to know when the Credit card is due (Yep I left a list of all of his passwords so he could have signed in a checked that also) so I tell him and again give girls hugs and kisses and leave without saying goodbye. Is it me or is he making excusses to call and excusses to keep me in the house a little longer? Am I just thinking to deep???? Today I hadnt heard from him. I let him know I transfered the money and would drop his checkbook off when I got into town with D8 to drop her off at grandmas. I went to the house and OW was there so I did not stop and drop it off I guess he can wait until Next time I am in town. It just shows me that he is a selfish stage. the first night he has no kids he has her over there. Also shows me he doesnt much care that I left. I am just glad he left the kids out of it. I am sure in her mind she is jumping for joy thinking she got the better deal but I can not wait for them to hit reality I hope it hits them like a brick. He isnt who he is to her in reality and things will not be as easy as he puts on. That is fine It just gives me more motivation to become Awesome!
