I feel very silly now. I have spent some time pouring over the resources, hit the vast majority on that list, but missed this one completely.
If I may add a few things, this is for people dealing with depression in their spouse.
First and foremost, you need to recognize that it isn't your fault. This truly is a disease. Would you blame yourself if your spouse was diagnosed with cancer? The same applies here.
Second, understand that you can't "fix" your spouses depressive moods. You can be supportive yes, but do so with no expectations of them recovering.
Will post more later, running out of time.
M: 38 W: 37 T: 20 M: 19 Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12 BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out) PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM) Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015