Got here late... but I'm here now.

[duke]

Well... W continues to make life worse by the day. I really thought she would come back from a month away and have a change of heart or at least not be so heartless. Such is not the case. Two days after she got back she screamed at me on the phone because she couldn't access our bank account or use her card. She accused me of changing something and cutting her off. It ends up that she just used the wrong password. Of course I was concerned as I didn't want my family to be without money so I made sure everything was OK on my end. Did she let me know that it was her mistake? Nope, nothing. I had to ask her a few times and eventually she told me what happened. I why she wouldn't think to let me know since I was concerned and she said "why?", like what do I care? Unreal.

We had an agreement with a Family Mediator that I would create an online calendar that we could share so that I could help driving and take part in the kids activities. Since she controls the schedule she was supposed to fill in the dates and notify me of any special events. I made the calendar and sent her the link. She told me that she was not going to complete the calendar or tell me anything. If I wanted to find anything out I would have to contact the kids 3 different schools. I told her that she was being very spiteful and only doing this to hurt me, that the only thing she was hurting was the relationship with our daughters and me. Thankfully its all in writing, about 3 pages worth. I have asked many times to see my kids and to set up a schedule, she refuses and ignores. My only option at this point is to meet with my new L next week and go the legal route. It is very unfortunate because I was and am more than willing to participate in my kids lives in a big way, to be there for them and to drive them anywhere they need to be. My W is choosing to make this very difficult just to hurt me. Pretty childish.