Just received an email from her lawyer for the child spport calculations. I am getting hammered, because W works part time, and I always worked overtime until we had issues. 1/3 of my paycheck will be given to her. I am very emotional, and upset. I had started to get my confidence back that we can be great again, but that was like a kick in the gut. So, not only is she tearing my family apart, she is crippling me financially. All because she isn't happy and doesn't know what she wants!? This may go a long way towards detachment, and LRT.
She still wants to sit together at the ball games, and at church. Right now, there is no way that I can do that. I hurt way too much.
Suggestions please!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....