Hello All I'm new to board so bare with me. W & I both recently turned 50. Married for 27 years Together for 31. 4 Kids. only 14 F at home. Recently gathered evidence and confronted wife proving she had been having 8 week multiple meeting affair with OM who is married and Father of 6. She Joined gym 8 months ago, goes everyday now in the best shape of her life. 10weeks ago posts personal and ad on CL for validation because what I say doesn't matter. We are trying to work things out, she says its over, trust is gone.