Astis,

I get what you are saying but it's hard for me to fully get on with my life living in this house. Until there is a D agreement I can't sell the without a lot of risk. He would get 1/2 and not have to reimburse me for any expenses or for the equity I am putting into the house. I have been paying all the bills since July. I can afford it but it's a stretch. I don't want to continue to do it for much longer.

Plus, living here is not helping me move on. He still has stuff here that I can't legally make him move etc.

Filing taxes is another issue.

Plus the longer this goes on the more I'm not sure I want to be married to him. He has A LOT of issues.


Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming