I agree, we have to come to terms with the reality of our situations. Only we can decide when enough is enough. I am doing much better because I took it upon myself to prioritize my health over whether or not I should leave or her. I am keeping my distance to at least be able to gather myself, process what is happening, and decide how to best approach this.
I will always have love for my wife, I still love her as my wife; but I have come to accept that we are not together and that she is done. I will love her from a distance and continue to support her without giving her too much of myself, at least until I am ready to move on.
Keep your head up brother, the decision you made is not an easy one, you love your wife, and like I mentioned before God may have plans for the both of you in which you end up together, but until then continue to grow as a better man, give her love and compassion within your own boundaries and move forward/on accordingly.
God Bless, always praying for the best for you.
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
