I do need some help here. There is an annual golf trip that i had gone on. When BD one of the complaints is that i always did what i wanted but she couldnt get to do as much as she wanted because she was a stay at home with the kids. So i had planned on not going this year. then one of my best friends decided to make this his bachelor party as he is getting married in november. They are all there now, and i am contemplating going for just friday and saturday to golf with them. I mentioned it to W to make sure she was not planning anything for the weekend that would require child care. I am having a hard time committing to going though. One i do not want to miss my fun times with the kids, two, i am really not ready for partying as my mood is not there, then three, which i am sure i should disregard since she is just focused on herself, I am trying to show different behavior. I need to decide fast for travel arrangements though!
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
