I would recommend seeing a female attorney who specializes in divorce. Different attorneys give different advice, and I have seen male attorneys who were very negative when it came to my rights and prospects because they had personal views against divorce.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17