Stop! Do not give in to her wanting sex, you think this will have you reconnect, but while she is all about OM, you are just a backup. You deserve better than this. Also, begin setting boundaries to protect yourself emotionally and mentally, you and your kids deserve to be healthy.
I know that everyone here is about not mentioning anything and ignoring when she is blatantly disrespecting you by talking to OM and texting him in front of you. You matter my friend, your feelings matter. Tell her that you will appreciate it if she respected you and not do that in front of you. If she continue I would definitely set some boundaries.
Continue with your journey my friend
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
