Tonight at a ball game, I stood by myself leaning on the fence. W came over and talked kid stuff, and kitchen stuff for the rental I am in. Then she tells me that she has had more "female" problems. I thought all that was cleared up 4 months ago or so.
She had laid out some pots and pans, etc for me to take, so I ran by the house after ball. We talked for a bit, and I told her that I am not quitting on us, and I am doing my best to not pressure her. She told me again that if she feels different that we will work it out. I told her that if she feels something, don't hold back.
Wish I knew what to do to make her feel a spark again. Apparently that is what she is waiting on.
Still confused on how to proceed.
I'm not sure you want to seem so available to her. It comes across as needy, not romantic. If a girl you didn't like said "I'll always be here. Just let me know if you change your mind." Your response won't be positive. You'll thibk "ok creep. I don't like you..."
The thing to do to make her feel a spark? Nothing! Be patient. If it does happen, it will come from within, like when you were first dating. There's no miracle button. Stop chasing her and give her a chance to figure her life out.
