Wow! I think the counselor would like your response:) One of the things we've found in counseling is that I actually have boundaries while he is just all over the place. There are a couple of things I have put my foot down on lately, the car payment and his cell phone. I have picked those up a lot over the last couple of years when he "can't" make the payment. I don't have "can't" in my vocabulary when it comes to meeting my obligations. The deal (as of last month) is that he pays both or walks/doesn't have a cell phone. I think part of this is in reaction to that "boundary."
