Quote: My current H has not been abusive towards me.
I'd seriously, seriously rethink this. Abuse comes in many forms. Though he may not be abusing you like your previous relationship, that does not mean your current relationship isn't abusive.
What I'd do is say to your H:
Fine. It's all MY fault. And when you get to HELL, you can tell Lucifer is was all MY fault. I'm sure he'll feel better for knowing.
NOW get out. And when you get a job and become responsible for your own life, your own happiness, and HALF of this relationship, then we can talk about you coming home. Refer any other questions to the shrink or my lawyer.
Good day, good luck, good riddance, I have a life to live.
Now that is a serious, no-nonsense boundary. Stick up for yourself, girl. No one else is going to do it for you.
