I just posted my first message on this board and read yours right after. Sounds like we're reading a similar chapter out of similar books - I have no children and there has been no snooping/discovery on my part but your feelings resonate with me and my situation in a way that lead me to reach out to you here. It's crazy how we can blindly end up in such a situation, isn't it? I mean, there has to be writing on the walls we either failed or refused to see. For what it's worth, I feel you and hope that through this journey in discovering ourselves and self-growth, we can come out of it in a better state of mind and being. It's my ultimate goal, as I've told my family and few friends that have learned about this - I will be a better person, regardless of the outcome. Hope the same for you. I'll be following your posts.
