4, I both sorry to hear his and happy to hear this. I'm sorry it was necessary and played out this way, but so happy you are away from him. I do have a problem with your saying you split the family up --no, sweetie, you didn't do that, he did.
I wouldn't be surprised if he starts sweet talking you soon, asking you to come back when the hard reality of all you used to do for him sets in. Be strong, it's not the time to go running back. Post frequently, take things slowly. I'm so proud of you.
