In the past, who would you say steered the MR? Which one was the giver and which the taker? (which one gave the grief and which one took it)
Did she show disrespect, treat you like a doormat, spew wrath on you, or things along those lines? I'm just trying to get a better picture of the M, b/c you haven't given us any history.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
