I just made appointments to see three different lawyers next week. It is my understanding that once I have seen these lawyers she is not allowed to use them.
It made me physically ill to call these guys. I cant believe this is happening. Why in the world would anybody put themselves through such a devastating experience. I know im going to get screwed here. I make more than twice the amount she does. I wouldn't think she would clean me out so to speak but I don't know this woman anymore. I don't know what she is capable of. I like to think she would be easy on me but at this point I think she is going to try to get everything she can from me. Why wouldn't she? she doesn't care about me.
My mind is racing and I ma worried about what is going to happen. She still hasn't filed or moved out or done anything for that matter. I started looking at my finances and it is overwhelming. I cant breath.
tkd - First, relax..... So, I make about 2.5 times what my wife makes. Separate from the cost of daycare, Im paying around $1250 a month for SS and CS. We had almost no savings and she got it all based on our home equity and such. Ive essentially gone to bank account balance of $0.
But, Im fine. Ill budget a little bit for a few months, and be OK. Thats what you get a lawyer for. To make sure that you come out ok. The only thing to be scared of is not knowing.
