I've had that, too - H said in MC that he thinks I sometimes act sick to get out of stuff. It's an incredibly mean and insensitive thing to say, and shows a lack of empathy that is astounding from the person who is supposed to be your life partner. I can only say to H that he is lucky to have such good health and not be physically unable to do the things he would love to do.

Continue to take care of yourself... Think of your H as temporarily insane.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17