No I have not yet seen a lawyer. I know I should. As for my state I don't know that either. I have kept my head in sand as far as moving forward with a D.
I did look up child support in my state. There is a child support rate calculator on the web. According to the calculator, someone with my income can expect to pay 1300 to 1500 a month. 1500 would pay for the private school they attend. My W and I both want them to continue to go there. I'm wondering how much (if any) amount over this I would be expected to pay. At this point I know that I will be fine emotionally without her but I don't know where I will stand financially.
M:39 W:40 S:10 S:7 D:12 BD:3/5/15 Separate BR:3/5/15 W moved out with kids 1/3/16