She wanted to take a deep look at what her to the A.
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From what W has told me counseling has been focused on the history of our relationship, and what will make her "happy."
Oh, one of those type of counselors. No wonder it's not helping the M. She will be encouraged to focus, even more, on her feelings and to find whatever it takes to make her happy.
When I was in my A, I actually went to a highly recommended therapist. I told her right off the bat what I was doing. Her answer? "Oh, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing!"
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
