It's tough, and the whole subject of Church & worship service can be touchy. It's funny how a wayward woman wants to continue to present her little family togetherness in front of church members. I did the same thing......and then break my neck getting home to contact OM.
Is your Church in that area? Is it a different denomination from hers? If so, do you want your children to attend both?
If you plan to show her how things will be after the D, then I suggest you attend your Church or find another one. Stop having lunch with her on Sundays. She's going to be mad about the lunches, but so what? She wants a D, so let her get a close up view.
Word of warning, you may not want to repeat my ^^ words to her. You may need to have an prepared answer, however. Don't say a lot, b/c it's not necessary to explain your actions, since she's fired you. Neither take a beating for not taking her to lunch.
Whatever you decide, just don't stop attending Church somewhere. You need the spiritual food.
Last edited by sandi2; 09/15/1503:53 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
