I'm dying to ask him questions and talk. No R talk before H leaves, right?
Theres no point to having the conversation, because what he SAYS and what he DOES are likely not going to be the same.
Lets say he says "I love you, I only want to be with you." Is that going to stop you from suspecting OW while he's gone? Is that going to stop you from asking about OW later? Is that going to cement what he feels or doesnt feel about OW in a month?
As Mutatio said, theres no outcome of this conversation that will change anything. The only other thing that could happen is that he could say things that hurt you.
Lets say you dont know if the stove is on or off. Would you check it by touching the burner?
