We have been sitting as a family when it's my weekend, and usually going out for lunch after. When it's her weekend, she is hit and miss on bringing them. It's her church that we belong to, not mine, so I don't know what to make of that either.
Sounds like if the kids are there she wants to be seen with them.
Why do you keep going to "her" church even when its not your time with them? Why are you going out to lunch together afterwards?
