New - Desperate & Confused, H won't end affair

[Uphill]

I'm glad you understand what I said. Sometimes people jus need a break, I came here and posted nonstop for a week or two, then sat and soaked in the info or a week. Then came back. We have a great group of vets! (Sandi2, wonka, cadet, 25yrs.... There are more but I will fill a page with names). They are here at this point strictly to give back. They aren't required to do this so take what they say to heart, they are truly here to help all of us. There is also a great group of non-vets, who are a great support system. They may not be as experienced as the vets but thu can see your sitch from a different perspective. Myself, I try to keep up with almost all threads, as time permits. Even though I may not talk a whole lot, I care about everybody here. Without this place to vent and get opinions I would not be where I am today. No, I'm not saying I'm any closer to a R with the woman I love. I'm saying I can feel myself getting stronger because of the support.

Sometimes, the end goal of an R with the X is met. Sometimes you just come out as a better person. Either way, you will grow.

I hate to admit this because I haven't done this lately, but I actually started crying while writing this. It just means so much that everybody here is not only in a very tough spot in thier own life. But willing to try to help others at the same time.