Sandi2 - its all become so surreal. Last night she comes home from therapy (we are both going individually) and goes right to the rooftop to talk to her mom...she is up there for 2 hrs. I can only imagine they are talking about how much of a terrible H i have been, and making plans for D. Of course she could be talking to OM.

Anyhow - on a separate note I watched MWD's Ted X talk "The Sex Starved Marriage" and it hit the nail on the head for us. Do you think it would be a good ideal to send W the youtube link to her talk? I mean it really describes our problems, except I had the higher drive yet she had the A.

Thanks again for all the responses. This board has been great.