New - Desperate & Confused, H won't end affair

[Butterc]

Hi Lisa

I hear what you're saying. I've been reading post after post to get a handle on my emotions and I too noticed there seem to be more D than DB. Uphill makes total sense about who posts on the forum. If I were concentrating on M working, I wouldn't be posting as much. But reading this forum has become a major part of my learning to detach and GAL.

BTW, I have read your posts and find a lot to relate to. So thanks. I feel I am not alone.