Thanks Sandy, I guess DRT is more where I am at. Yes, I agree that she is being selfish. Not thinking about anyone but herself. It is so out of character from out first 13 years together. Since she has "lost herself", I hardly recognize her most of the time. Occasionally there is a glimpse of my wife in there... but most often not.
I just finished re-reading the LRT section.
What should I do about church? She wants us to sit as a family, but I don't know that it is the right thing to do. I don't want to hurt my boys, but, I want to give myself the best chance at having a reconciliation.
5hanks for your help Sandy, it's a great help to see some of the other side of this
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
