Really disheartening, again its like she is trying to justify everything, and convince herself the A and leaving is the best
Yep! Plus, she was bashing you to her parents so that they wouldn't be so critical of her having an A. See how she laid out everything you were doing, before she threw in the tidbit about herself?
I did the same thing with my parent.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
