So yesterday I come home from work and my W is on the phone with her parents. Right or wrong I listened...all she was doing was bashing me to them, literally using anything i had said after finding out about her A against me. She even casually mentioned her A to them, as if to say "i guess this makes me the bad guy now." Really disheartening, again its like she is trying to justify everything, and convince herself the A and leaving is the best decision.