Have i been making mistakes too long part 5

[Sotto]

Hi TK, I'm sorry you had a tough night. What you are posting really highlights the need to work on detachment.

It feels like my life is over.....your life exists separately to your S and you need to discover and embrace that.

I wish things were different.....we're all working to transform brutal reality into a happy future life just now - transcendence.

You can get off the roller coaster whenever you like my friend. It is within your gift whenever you want to - whatever your W may be doing. You may have yet to truly believe this, but believe me it is true.

This is the worst feeling ever. Yes I understand the pain (all too well unfortunately.) And it is what you DO with the pain that matters. Handle this right and you'll feel you can survive anything life may throw at you.

Things are not changing fast enough....patience is key (and GAL) and things will unfold in their own time and at their own pace. Your feelings of frustration don't make any difference there.

Please remember that the most important outcome of this sitch is not whether you R with your S, but who you become as a result of this experience. Do that part right, and you will find happiness whichever way.

Take care x