So sorry that you are here. I agree with mutatio when he says he smells a rat. If you H has locked you out of your accounts you need to hire a lawyer. I'm so glad to hear you are getting one.
You are getting some great advice. And it sounds like you are calmer and finding your center. You must first and foremost take care of your health.
Time is a great healer. GALing is important. It is definitely helpful for detachment. There will be days when you feel like superman and days when you will not want to get out of bed. As time passes there will be more stability and less roller coaster. Stay strong, pray, let go and let it unfold. There are many brilliant people here to help. Keep posting.
