I called my mother today, and she has the same opinion. Some of the other stunts he's pulled indicate some planning and premeditation. Bless her sweet heart, she's sending money so that I can hire one. He will NOT give me money to do it.

I dislike referencing health issues, but the sustained high blood pressure is causing lots of problems for me. I'm supposed to avoid stress, but I have no control over this. Hiring a lawyer to deal with him seems like the best option. Just the thought of him looming over me and browbeating me makes me sick to my stomach. I'm trying so hard to stay strong...


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti