Moving forward, with or without her. Are there any character flaws you'd like to leave behind? Things that you don't want to take with you for the remainder of your life?

I'm not trying to justify her A, just suggesting you work on the things you do have control over. Her A, where it goes, that is beyond your control. I eventually reached a point where it didn't have power over me, she still does, but the A no longer does. I'm still working on the part where she doesn't have power over me. Some days are better than others.

You've probably seen it all over these forums, but you really should focus on making the changes that you want, for you. Not for her.

I agree with you, rough times.

M: 38 W: 37
T: 20 M: 19
Kids: Stepson?20, S19, S16, D12
BD: 02/19/2015 (She moved out)
PA Confirmed: 02/22/2015 (She is now living with OM)
Dazed and confused: 09/13/2015