FYI- if she's violated some severe boundaries you can just not reply altogether. In that case it might help to explain why you're not communicating. Something simple like

"I understand you're not interested in being M and I will respect your wishes. I, however, am not interested in downgrading our M to a casual friendship. I will be taking some space to continue to rebuild and enjoy my new life."

Last edited by Zues126; 09/15/15 01:47 AM.
Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15