Question about going dark: I know this means not initiating contact, but what does it mean as far as responding to her contact? Is this totally ignoring any contact she initiates?
I don't like ignoring contact. It looks immature. Instead be a bit distant, businesslike, and don't draw things out. Never give more than about 75% of what she does.
For example:
Her: Hey, just thinking about you, how's it been going? You: It's all good. No need to ask her how she's been.
Feel free to give us examples of texts you've gotten, but caution- might want to change the verbiage SLIGHTLY so if by some weird stretch she google searches her text message it doesn't lead her right to this board. Sounds paranoid, but it's happened.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
