Choking on hatred.....help!!!

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I feel your pain. I never thought my H could talk to me and treat me the way he has. Granted, I understand that is how he feels I have treated him for many years. Some of that is true, but I also think there are some underlying issues with himself that are also a major cause of his crisis. The thing you have to remember is that your H is not in his right mind right now. I have heard many instances where once they come out of their fog, depression, or personal crisis that they don't often remember treating their LBS this way. Unfortunately, many Ms end before they come out as the damage has been done. Underneath all of your Hs anger is hurt, pain and anger at himself. As hard as it is, try not to take it personally. I know, easier said than done!