I am seriously terrified of H...I have made the mental leap that he is no longer my friend. He is so emotionally abusive. I finally got him out of the house, which has been a blessing. Tonight he has been burning up my phone with texts regarding my hiring a lawyer. I'm telling him I haven't decided (I have), in order to keep him from coming over and screaming at me in person. He's been threatening me with dire results if I do. We live in a state not known to be an alimony friendly state. It's not like I can hurt him too much. I don't understand why he is trying to control me this way, if he's on his way out. OW must be worried...
