Asked for the D

[ILYNOT]

Will continue to pray, shes going to church which is something I prayed for so God is listening to us.

I miss her daily, I told myself I will really detach and not be around her like I have been, even though we were getting closer she has kept these OMs and her life private until now.

We do echange today so I don't know how its going to go, I don't know if shes going to want to talk or if I even should..

Anyone?

[EMMess]

I would keep short and simple. Cordial and Civil. If she brings it up, don't acknowledge it and leave as soon as you can. It doesn't matter and you are not her backup, you deserve to be treated with respect.

Keep up the prayer and being a better version of yourself..

I will keep you in my prayers my brother.

[Ancaire]

This situation is awful!!! I feel your pain. Hang in there.

[ILYNOT]

I would keep short and simple. Cordial and Civil. If she brings it up, don't acknowledge it and leave as soon as you can. It doesn't matter and you are not her backup, you deserve to be treated with respect.

Keep up the prayer and being a better version of yourself..

I will keep you in my prayers my brother.

Thank you EMMess, were on the same boat, thank you for being there for me as I am for you, it stings as I type this and has been very painful, just when I think I have overcome this Im back to square 1.

FULLY Detach
180s.
PMA
Be the best ILYNOT
Continue to pray for Her to open her eyes to the painful realities of separation and divorce.
Move on.

[ILYNOT]

This situation is awful!!! I feel your pain. Hang in there.

I will try, with only 2 hours of sleep and the images in my head, hard to get them out.

Exchange is today I am planning on saying HI saying goodbye to my kids and if she wants to talk about it then fine, if not then I will not.

Makes no difference anyhow. She wont stop and told me so.

PMA, DETACH, STFU, 180s.

[EMMess]

Good luck brother!

[EMMess]

Hey Brother, just checking up on you. Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Hope things are getting better.

[Rouky]

How are you doing?

[ILYNOT]

Hi everyone, thanks for your concern, we talked during exchange Friday, it was a nice friendly conversation, I am convinced I know what must be done unfortunately. Its time to move on, it was a tough weekend, lots of talking and crying with family.

I am actually planning on Filing myself this week so I don't wait on her.

A lot of thinking, a lot of prayer, was home alone most of the weekend, grieving again letting it all out.

[EMMess]

Hi brother, I am sorry you are going through so much pain. We will continue to pray and come out better man for all of it. God has a bigger plan for us, and through our pain we will come out cleansed.

I am both happy and sad to hear about your decision, happy that you are taking a lead in your own life, and if you feel this what you need to be at peace and move on, by all means do the needful. We don't really know what the future holds, you might get pass this a few years in the future and find yourself with your W. If not, you'll find a great woman to share your changes with.

God Bless brother, I will be praying for you, always in our thoughts.