Unfortunately Rdken we cannot change how people have been brought up and what their values are, what we can only change is what WE want from life and what our own values are.
I used to think how I have been brought up was the right way, now I have learned that they are different ways and I need to find a compromise that doesn't clash with my own moral values.
It's not an easy position you are in, although in few months time you'll feel better. Please focus on yourself. You have so much to look forward too. Keep faith :-)
