Not in my eyes or in the eyes of many others on the board, including Sandi. Limbo allows women to keep things exactly where they want them for an indefinite period of time. It also allows her to have her cake and eat it too. At least you are separated, so the cake eating is minimal. Regardless, limbo has the effect of making you, the LBH, more insane by the minute. It will ultimately be up to you how long you will wait this out. Advising someone as to a particular time frame is not something I'm prepared to do. Remember you are working on changing yourself by detaching, getting a life, and becoming a better person. Use the time wisely.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days
