Actually for your sake, I really hope you are right. But I think you might be receiving false hope. As a personal anecdote, there were several times during our separation during which my wife would introduce me as her husband and everything seemed like it was back to normal. Time will tell. Her actions will speak louder than her words. By the way, her riding the fence and doing nothing, (aka limbo), IS an action that should speak loudly.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days