Well in that case, you have something you can work on. In the meantime, Azz is right. You'll never change her behavior or actions. Nothing will stop her from leaving or divorcing you if that's what she wants to do. It sounds like she would need a great deal of professional help before returning to a relationship. If she will not seek help and accept responsibility for her actions, you don't want someone like that. Take care and hang in there.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days
