You don't want to be known as a man that goes back on his word, however I would issue a word of caution. Letting her return to the home without confirming that the affair is over will be a costly mistake, both in terms of your self-respect, and overall timeline of reconciliation (if possibility exists). Women in affairs cannot be trusted. Ever. Regardless of how good their answers are. They know how to manipulate to get what they want.
Me:29 W:27 M: 4 years T: 5 years No children S: 7/7/15 EA: 7/7/15 BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15 MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed) PA: 8/29/15 W Files for D: 9/9/15 D will finalize in 60 days
