I never thought of it like that. I wasn't questioning her as a mom (at least not to her face) but I get how that would piss her off if she saw it that way. I do it most mornings when she has to take the kids to school. -_-
This whole sich jist blows me away. I am trying to do the right thing, but what's right seems to change minute by minute with her. because something tells me she would be pissed if I didnt wake her up tomorrow.
Thanks for the advice guys. I am trying to get it right, but it is so hard sometimes. Lol At least I am smiling still.
If you learn nothing while you are here, remember this:
Her perception is her reality
You may think you are being helpful, being a good dad, being a great husband. But if she thinks that you are being annoying, or judging her, or are actively undermining her ability to properly parent, then to HER, thats what youre doing. Your intentions and how you read the situation dont matter any more.
So, when you are dealing with a WW, theres no room for error on these, as she is always going to read you in that manner. Its not changing - you just are only looking at it from your perspective of her, not from her perspective of you.