Do you have a shared online calendar set up like a Google calendar? I set one up the other day and it was pretty easy. Under each event you could list "bring ball" and list the snack days. This way its in writing and it leaves no chance for miscommunication. Its probably best that you limit verbal communication for organizing weekly events as much as possible. I learned quickly that no matter what you do you cannot win with WAS. Prime example, my WAS gave me what for and said my D was very disappointed that I sold our basketball stand and hoop all the while I was actually looking at and reading the email from her the day before telling me to sell the basketball stand and hoop. Everything is mine and your fault here no matter what.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation
