Very spot on heavy... We fill the void left with GAL and IC... They already have filled that void preBD with the OP and it's not till that A burns out and they are left alone with their own thoughts and questions do they looked internally, that's if they ever do at all .... It's easier to cast the blame for the failed relationships towards us as they did, and again to the OP ... Easier to blame someone else rather than to look inward ... Something at this point we all can at least understand as it's not an easy thing to digit us, might be even harder for them considering the amount of pride to be swallowed
