Sorry. It is hard when our Ss stop turning to us. On the plus side, he is probably having to learn something he should have a long time ago: take care of himself. Even wo/ an OP in the picture, my W's life is opaque to me. She will only turn to me if it is really, really necessary. So, don't jump to the conclusion that OW is providing the service you used to in this area. It may just be that he feels the need to not be dependent on you right now.

And, remember, the person you need to be primary care-giver to right now is you.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15