What I do not understand is why she got cold feet. I did everything right, no pressure, no talk of divorce, etc. I was the cool collective guy she feel in love with. It seems that right after I left someone got into her ear. So strange.
The worst thing is when she told me I was acting like a stalker which is so untrue because I had not spoken to her in months. All I did was send flowers after I left because she told me how much she loved me. The introducing me as a husband made me smile and I thought ok I am back in the game. The divorce papers still have not been filed.
All I can do is work on myself when I get out there and leave her alone. She will know were I am and how to get in touch with me. The last thing I want to do i scare her. Thanks for any advice.